The Fantasy Exploration Fun Quiz

Mitch fantasises and daydreams about his partner going out and watching her being flirtatious. It is a big turn on imagining her being desired by others. The idea of exploring intimacy outside their relationship is not something that has been discussed and Mitch struggles with if and how he would bring this up*

A lot of people have sexual fantasies, and a lot of people struggle with feelings of guilt and embarrassment about them. However, there is no need for shame - embracing your erotic fantasies can be beneficial for your relationship(s) and empower your sexual journey. Regardless of your relationship status or stage, fantasies can play a positive role in your love life.

Five reasons why your sexual fantasies are a positive asset:

1. Fantasies keep your sexuality alive. They keep your mind and body primed for sex, even after having a busy day at work or when you can't see your partner for a while.

2. Fantasies help you explore your hidden desires and clarify what you really crave.

3. Sharing your fantasies and talking about what turns you on, improves not only your sex life but will build deeper levels of intimacy and connection.

4. Fantasies push away non-sexual thoughts. If during sex your mind drifts off, you can switch into fantasy mode and spark those sexual feelings.

5. Fantasies keep things interesting. Whether you want to have outdoor sex or see your partner with another person, acting out your fantasies can help keep your sex life ever evolving and fun.

   
   

Take the Fantasy Exploration Fun Quiz

Remember, the key is to create a fun, non-judgmental, and safe space where you explore each other's or your own fantasies and desires. Fantasies are adult play and therefore fun is the way to go.

Question 1

If our/your love story were a steamy romance novel, what title would you give it, and how would the 'scandalous' characters seduce each other?

Question 2

Name your alter ego superhero for the bedroom. What superpowers do they possess?

Question 3

Choose a fictional universe for a role-play scenario. Where and when would it be, and what would they wear?

Question 4

If a magical genie granted you three sexual wishes, what would they be?

Question 5

Which of your senses plays the most significant role in enhancing your pleasure? Is it touch, taste, smell, sights, or hearing?

If you have a fantasy, you're not comfortable discussing with your partner or if you and your partner are finding certain fantasies you want to explore challenging, please reach out to me for kind, non-judgemental support.

*This story is fictional. It’s not based on any real person or client. It’s simply one example of the kinds of experiences people might go through in life. Any similarities to actual people are purely a coincidence.