Kink Affirming Counselling
Did you know…
that people often wait 6 years from when they first develop an interest in kink until they feel comfortable trying it.
Part of this delay is likely due to stigma, as well as a lack of information about how to safely engage. Having a kink-friendly therapist can be a big help during this time, providing support and unbiased information.
The more accessible and informed resources there are about kink, the easier it becomes for people to engage in a safe and informed way.
What is kink affirming?
Kink affirming involves accepting the different sexual preferences that are considered kink. It accepts that sexual kinks and fetishes are normal variations of sexuality that are integrated in people’s sexual identity.
A kink-friendly therapist is all about accepting and embracing your sexual preferences. They create a safe space where you (and your partner(s)) can openly chat about your desires and relationship dynamics without any guilt or shame.
As a kink-friendly therapist, I see my clients as the experts on their own sexual selves. I’m open to discussing their desires and don’t aim to change your behaviors. I recognize that everyone expresses their sexuality in their own unique way, and I create a space where you can explore your identities both individually and within your relationships.
What is a kink?
The word kink implies a ‘bend’ in a person’s sexual preference compared to traditional sexual behaviour. It is a bend from a straight line.
Australia ranked 5th in countries with the most people seeking kinky relationships (KinkD, 2023).
People look for kinky play in the following: BDSM (bondage, power exchange, sadism and masochism, etc), role-playing (age play, pet play, etc), sensory play (wax play, orgasm denial, etc), fetishes (strong attraction to a specific object or body part like feet or leather), impact play (spanking, flogging, etc), virtual play, public play (dogging), etc.
